Can I take photos and videos during a Pakistani wedding?

In a modern Pakistani wedding, taking pictures and shooting videos to capture the memories and joyous moments is a very common tradition. This is a special occasion for the families of both the bride and the groom; thus, they always prefer saving the happy events and reliving them later on. However, it is important to consider that nobody’s images are taken without their consent, and what’s more important than that is not posting them on social media. That too, without their permission, can be seen as an offence. Generally, it depends a lot on individual family preferences, where some might have no issue with open photography, while others may not allow it at all.

Photography at traditional Pakistani weddings

At its root, Islamic tradition does not favor a lot of open photography, especially that of women. A bride herself, in certain cultures, may want a level of privacy, even when she dresses herself with the best lehenga, gharara, or an elegant sharara as a spotlight, personal space is always a priority. Most modern Pakistanis are aware of these Islamic rulings, and they do it in a way that does not go against them, not spreading these photos beyond their immediate families and social media. They stay between the long-standing cultural etiquette and the growing trend of documenting weddings, a trend that has evolved over many years. From tape recorders to mobile phone cameras, an event today is incomplete without photography.

Religious & Social etiquette around cameras and video

While photography is a common thing, being mindful of certain sensitivities is essential, especially regarding the mixing of genders and respecting personal space. Since women opt for modest clothing, it’s always respectful to ask for permission before taking photos and videos, especially of women. Family preferences play an important role here, since certain families may be sensitive to who is being captured standing with whom. In some cases, families limit access to certain areas or moments of events.

Why are photos & videos an integral part of Pakistani weddings

Taking photos and capturing moments has become a ritually inherent attribute of Pakistani weddings. It is true that Pakistanis, as well as Indians, take weddings seriously; from food to guests and decor, everything is crafted to the highest level of perfection and is a lifetime project. So there is no point in setting up the whole splendor if it’s not a spectacle for the public. Dresses, in particular, are given special importance and far off relatives who are unable to attend look at photos, especially women who give special importance to dresses. Whether it’s formal wear or casual, dressing is taken into special consideration.  In short, if there are no pics, it may be seen as if the event did not take place.

Guest etiquette for photography in a Pakistani wedding

In most of the Pakistani and South Asian weddings, professional photographers are hired to do the job of recording the event beautifully. Therefore, you should try not to block their view of them, and if you do take pictures, make sure they are from a comfortable angle. In certain events, if photography is discouraged, you should respectfully follow what the hosts demand from you. This helps the event to be conducted according to their mood and maintains respect.

Closing remarks on photography in a Pakistani wedding

A wedding is meant to be fully present, so that emotions flow freely, maintaining the modesty and respect of the sacred event. Yes, photos and videos are essential, but if the focus is on them, the whole event becomes the photos rather than the people. Try doing them in a way that does not neglect the integrity of people and the event.